Erotic humiliation can be done verbally and/or physically, and can take place privately or publicly.Some individuals assume an acting role and others prefer to be spoken to in a degrading way.Humiliation comes into its own as a sexual force when the recipient seeks the humiliation over and above means.For example, being spanked is primarily valued because of the belittlement involved.Some humiliation roleplay (pup-play and age play in particular) is combined with loyalty and care-giving to the extent that these fetishes can be seen as exercises in trust rather than primarily a humiliation fetish.The desire to be beneath the other partner during intercourse, the idea of "getting caught" (as in having sex in the garden or woods), and simulated rape are emotional games that emphasise status, vulnerability, and control.It does not need to be sexual in nature; as with many other sexual activities, it is the feelings that are obtained from the experience that are desired, regardless of the nature of the actual activity.Usually there is a feeling of submission for the person being humiliated, and dominance, for the person implementing the humiliation.
She is stripped naked, hung upside down, whipped and a master doing roleplay of a devil forces himself on her.
It can also be for a set period of time (a "scene") or an ongoing facet of a relationship.
The humiliation is not intrinsic to the act or the object.
A penis-gagged woman is publicly disgraced by being paraded topless at Folsom Street Fair.
She is held in bondage using a dog leash, one end of which is held by her master. Some sexual humiliation involves physical inflicting pain, but much of it is far more concerned with ridicule, mocking, degradation, and embarrassment. For example, one person might play the part of a dog because they enjoy being mock-forced into it, and the top might emphasize the lowness of the bottom's status as an animal, whereas another person might play the role of the dog without any element of humiliation, simply as an expression of an inner animal or playful spirit.