You’ll want to appear as if you’re high status and busy as well and take your time in replying to her, too. You don’t want to appear too available as this makes you look needy. You’ve probably done this before already, thinking that if you didn’t reply to her fast enough, she might lose attraction for you or she might be upset with you because you take too long and that might ruin your chances with her. Come on, admit it, you’ve done this before; everyone has. It’s not a rule that should be followed to a tee, but it should be loosely followed, and if done, should put you into an attraction-building position.I say loosely followed here because you don’t want to always text her eleven minutes after she texts you if she usually takes about ten minutes to text you. If she is in a pattern of texting you every ten minutes or so, and you have seven texts between you, take 15 minutes, 20 minutes, 8 minutes, 10 minutes, 30 minutes, 5 minutes, 13 minutes. They’re more of the natural timing texts between friends would be.
Timing is the space in between texts that you and she take to reply back to each other’s messages.
(The same thing could be said for using “haha” as this is interchangeable with “lol.”) To lighten the mood again for something that seems serious, you might say to a woman, “Yeah, I just got home from the gym.
They had to kick me out because I started lifting up the side of the building lol.” Just saying something ridiculous like this could get a laugh out of her, and the placement of that “lol” at the end of the sentence clearly tells her you’re joking around as opposed to just being weird.
A good “lol” placed in a text message shows a woman you’re making a joke.
It’s not literally meant to mean that you’re “laughing out loud,” but it has transformed more into meaning that you’re joking or find something funny.