Online dating services also differ widely in their revenue streams.Some sites are completely free and depend on advertising for revenue.They might also engage in hard-to-get games to "keep men interested." Men often pretend they want a relationship in order to get sex (because they're taught they can't they want sex), spinning dreams of a rosy-hued future which will vanish once they realize the woman they've been making promises to expects them to be kept.Both genders invite bad behavior from each other in these scenarios and emerge with yet more "proof" that "women are crazy" and "men are assholes." 4. A great guy didn't suddenly morph into a douchebag because you talked about sex in your online profile; he was attract a douchebag.Since I've become intentionally sexually transparent in my dating profile, I haven't met any douchebags. Men like my profile because they know where they stand. My marriage ended for many reasons, but sexual incompatibility was at the top of the list. If you want to write a sexually transparent profile, go for it.The last thing I want, at 51, is another relationship in which I can't be myself sexually -- or to spend time with someone hoping that the sex will get better, then being disappointed when it doesn't. If a grown man is going to lose respect for me because I'm transparent about sex, then he isn't someone I want to be with anyway. The guy (or guys) you're meant to be with will appreciate it and you don't need to be concerned about the other ones anyway.
But you don't want to stand out to everyone; you just want to stand out to the type of person who shares your values -- sexual and otherwise.
Online dating services allow users to become "members" by creating a profile and uploading personal information including (but not limited to) age, gender, sexual orientation, location, and appearance.
Most services also encourage members to add photos or videos to their profile.
And I certainly don't mean that you should play down your intelligence, since the kind of man you most likely want to attract will also be turned on by your mind.
But I mean that if you miss having hot morning sex before your hot morning coffee, then go ahead and say that. Are men such savages that they can't value a woman for more than the sum of her lady parts?