…except older guys trying to hit up much younger women. If you’re older and she’s much younger, you need to be non-creepy.If you start talking about how hot her boobs are or tell her how you “can’t wait to get her back to your place”, she’s going to vanish fast, even if she’s a Type 2.While there are always unusual exceptions to every rule, this approach does not work.It fails for a very simple reason: The VYW most likely to have sex with you are the Type 2s, which are women who younger men their own age.Instead of talking about what to do to attract and date much younger women, something I’ve talked about before, today I’ll discuss what to do.Definitions As usual, we need to get our definitions straight.
Being Horny Or Sexual Too Fast One of the greatest pieces of seduction advice I’ve ever heard was to “risk creepy”.The older man / younger women stuff also generally applies to any man who is hitting up any woman of legal age who is more than 10 years younger than he is.(Since men hitting up women within one to nine years younger is considered “normal” by society in most cases.) So in a way, a 45 year old man working with a 26 year old woman would apply here, even though she’s technically not a VYW.These guys dress like nerds, have hair and grooming that look like crap, and worse, are often way too skinny or fat. You could dress like crap and not worry about your hair or your clothing too much, and still probably get laid.But if you’re 44 years old hitting up 21 year-old women, I’m sorry, but you’re going to have to step it up a little.That doesn’t mean you cross the line, but it does mean you are very aggressive, and err on the side of “creepy” rather than “nice guy”.This is very, very good advice, I do this myself, and I recommend it to all men across the board…Younger women, even Type 2s, are hypersensitive about creepy older men, as well they should be (for their own safety reasons).Instead of being a creepy older guy, you need to be a confident, especially if you’re talking over texts, online, or in a public place, and/or if you have not established clear rapport yet. I see way too many older guys who do have chances with younger women completely blow it by being too creepy, too verbally sexual, way too fast.The good news is that the world is filled with super hot Type 2s and Type 3s, and I’m talking about what most men would consider 9s and 10s. Whenever I go out on a first date with a VYW, not only do I the older man aspect.These women will be more than happy to sleep with a much older man. I know that since she’s agreed to a date with me, she’s not a Type 1, so she’s either a Type 2 (in which case fast sex will be very easy as long as I don’t majorly screw anything up) or a Type 3 (in which case my odds are a little lower and a little more comfort-building time will be required).