The 22-year-old who goes clubbing every weekend is probably going to spend more nights in calmer environments (like a jazz bar, or home) by the time she hits 30.So if you’re interested in spending time in more low-key environments, then dating older women is a great way to go.For example, if there’s a lot of sexual tension and you want to bring her back to your place to get physical, you don’t need some cover like “let’s go back to my place and watch a movie”.She knows the real reason you’re inviting her over, and if she wants the same thing she won’t need an excuse to rationalize it.This combination of confident body language and eye contact will get her to see that you’re the kind of powerful, self-assured man older women like.Unlike a lot of younger women who are still exploring the dating world, older women have a much stronger idea of what they want.They’re less inclined to “play games” and more willing to go after exactly what it is they desire.
One of the best ways to learn and grow through a relationship comes through deep rapport.
When you touch her you build sexual tension, and when you pull your touch away that tension releases.
If you continually build and release tension by making physical contact and then releasing that touch, it’ll strengthen the sexual intensity between you.
For example, if you’re on a date and feel pressure to think of something interesting to say, then say something like “I feel like I need to come up with something clever to say…” Opening yourself up like this gives her a chance to feel closer to you and connect on a deeper level.
It also helps her feel safe opening up, which is going to make the connection even stronger.