I am concerned because what I may be taking as offensive or that he is involved with other women may be culturally related to family obligations, and I want to believe the best of him. If they like you will for real, they have no problems with displaying it publicly. learn how to cook ofe egwusi with okporoko and pounded yam (he'll lick both fingers and toes together) 2. make sure he got akwukwo ikikere obodo unu before you move foward, otherwise ojiri gi wee nwee akwukwo ikikere.I've never dated a Nigerian before, but I have had my share of Black American men that are dogs, and I am scared of being hurt again. In most cases, they are waiting on their sweet heart from there own country, and you are there to take their mind off of the long wait. Hi Prunella I'm dating a Nigerian born man who lives in the states and has American born children.re you a foreigner in love with a Nigerian man or may be dating a Nigerian man?Are you planning to move back to Nigeria with your newly wedded charming Nigerian husband ?In Nigeria, husband and wife work together as a team, each playing different roles in the family.In your Country’s law, men and women might be equal when it comes to authority and leadership, but this is not the same for us.
I have been dating an American-born Nigerian man for a few months now, and I care for him very much. I do know that we have a lot of problems communicating sometimes and I think it is because of cultural stuff.
I expressed the importance that I hear he loves me and I do hear that from time to time.
We are in a bit of a tough spot because of and ex-spouse and I'm having trouble as an American woman I want to talk it to death, but he is withdrawn and quiet. Hang in there, Nigerian born or culture is different but the man is definately worth it. Perhaps it should be the same, but the person grew up in London and was back and forth to Nigeria, and believe me, there are differences.
We are trying to adjust to each other, but sometimes, I feel like he keeps things pertaining to his culture from me because of the stereotypes out there about Black women and what he says Black Americans feel about Nigerians.
In my case, I would love to know more about his culture, and I would appreciate it and value it as much as he does.