These are conversations that need to be had and they can be determinative. The Bible commands spouses to delight sexually in each other and this requires a level of physical attraction (Proverbs -19). I place it last because attraction can be automatic or it can be cultivated.
Your body reacts to it like it would an upper, but without the harmful side effects and embarrassment of failing a urine test.
Look for the girl who is already serving in your church and washing the feet of the saints. Questions to ask include the following: Do I want this man to teach my children the Scriptures?
Do I want this woman to raise my children to love the Lord? Is this lady someone who can show me more of God’s heart and push me closer to Christ? Personality Not everyone is meant to get along all the time.
Perfection is not required, but pursuit of holiness is mandatory.
If you are a man, you should be seeking a woman who is already exhibiting love, compassion, wisdom and gentleness.