And the truth is that despite how wonderful the date was, they most likely not feel any responsibility to change their literal nature.
They will call if they have something to talk about rather than to check how you are generally doing.
It is a paradox, even astrologically, why Aquarius men are so often so stereo-typically Aquarian.
I'm talking of those disturbingly aloof, allergic to commitment and extensive communication, who keep yo-yo-ing between being close and distant. But this is maybe what makes them so mysteriously attractive, apart from their generally good looks. But they play differently, and above all, they play in their own terms and rules. Advanced mind games based on testing one’s tolerance to freedom, friendship as an indication of pure love, and of course testing the degree of happiness that can be achieved by an orgasm. Lisa complained they think too much about everything.
Humor works very well because Aquarians are also maniacs with honesty.
They tend to measure the respect to themselves and to others by how honest they are.
’ she asked me one time, only to receive my aloof but meaningful look suggesting 'hey! I am an equally perfect example of friends go first'. Lisa has met the Aquarians who are either busy having fun with friends or busy dealing with their personal issues privately and isolated.
She works as a business analyst in a multinational company, rents a beautiful apartment in a good neighborhood, and despite the urban anxieties she maintains high spirits and a fine humour.
Or maybe a good lie would have turned me off as I would totally lose my respect for him. Well, all I could do is isolate myself for some days thinking and analyzing the situation, until Lisa finally convinced me to go out and start having some fun again.
After all, if you are not ready for honesty, mind games, and the excitement of the subtly twisted nature then there are so many non-Aquarian men to date.
Another issue which is terribly difficult for many, including Leo Lisa, to understand, and often impossible to accept is how literal Aquarians can be. It means spending time having fun (ok, mostly playing mind games) with somebody.
It does not mean a responsibility to entertain the other person or even a need to meeting them again.